Friday, February 14, 2014

Friday Remix: Stella Young

Today's Friday Remix features Stella Young, activist and writer. Her article from The Sydney Morning Herald may strike a chord with you on this day celebrating love and relationships. Check out the full article here

Don't look past my disabled body -- love it
Stella Young

The notion of “looking past” disability to somehow see “the real person” is one I have come to find deeply offensive. I spent my teenage years thinking that I needed to find someone who could ignore my physical body and see my “attributes” - my intelligence and humour, my mad knitting skillz. I thought that the only logical way for someone to find me attractive would be for them to ignore what I look like. It didn't occur to me until years later that my body is also an attribute.

I realised that I didn’t want that kind of relationship. I didn’t want someone to ignore my body. I wanted someone who’d look directly at it and love it, wonky bits and all.

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